Hey so sorry to hear it's been this bad for you :(
I have one thing I want you to think about before you get the surgery,
from what I understand they take the inside of your lip and put it as the outside of your lip? Is that correct? I could be wrong, so that's why I'm asking.
If that is the case I can't help but think about what might become your lips in the future, they may be far worse since the inner lip is supposed to be wet with saliva all of the time, I am just worried it might make your situation even worse...and I'm sure you've already thought of that. But please give me your opinions and let us know what the doctor said and how they go about actually doing the procedure so we have a better understanding.