I am past the need for birth control, but this one sounds especially horrific. Please do post again, further on, and update with your condition, for those who are younger.
In keep wondering why we don't practise, globally I mean, something sane--like birth control using the intuitive faculties. These have been so denied, deplored and dismissed for way too long. But I think a change is coming. If people get off drugs and fluoride, the poisons in food,and start to really be able to function, great potential from within will start coming 'online' again. Birth control then, according to one's own body, by tracking ovulation, etc; the natural way. Of course this means that humans as a species will have to change their attitudes about sex and desire.
"accidentally pulling it out" might actually have been intuition waking up and acting.