+1 for vinegar. Love how fresh it smells when it dries. I shampoo my carpets with half water half vinegar with a quarter cup of baking soda and borax. If you want to get fancy, theres an essential oil blends that go nice with it.
Mycotoxins on all your belongings is an issue you must treat too. I bought an ozone machine and ran it for 12 hours.
Search4truth - that nasty stuff coming out of you is a good thing. My experience with mold exposure is mainly junk and inflammation in the airways and sinuses.. not sure how other people react.
We all have a past... it is what it is, cant change what we've done, but we can try to reverse the damage from our bad choices and things beyond our control.
A warm compress should help your eye. I used to get those a lot as a kid.