From a spiritual standpoint when our life blows up it's cuz we need a change. Becoming *bed-ridden* means something is going on with you & you're trying to ignore it. We unconsciously sabotage ourselves to stop everything and pay attention, cuz there's nothing else we _can_ do. Take it from someone who stuck themselves into bed. ;) This happens in small ways with colds, or in big ways with broken bones and debilitating illnesses.
Cleansing is a good place to start. Good luck, I hope you get some peace & joy in your life too. :) ~Rebeckah