You're not ignorant at all... if anything it makes me feel better to know there are people out there who actually care about one another. One time I tried to put my 2 cents in on a subject I knew a little about and someone just shot down everything I said as being untrue... all I had done is posted my personal experience on the subject...this website is suppose to be about helping other people by sharing your own experience and/or insight and that's all I had done. That's what I love about it... we're just all letting others know about our own experience and what worked for us... well... there are the few trying to make a profit off of seeling some product, but for the most part I see good people just trying to help one another. I liked your insight about the hormonal aspect... it's worth investigating that's for sure... I'm VERY open to suggestions so thanks for taking the time to respond. Have a great day!