I think you'd get more help if you slow down a bit. You're rambling on and on and screaming for help -- it's kind of overwhelming. Maybe if you take a deep breath, and ask for something specific that you need?
You say you've tried praziquantel and albendazole? Did you try them together as per ICU's protocol, posted on the forum? If you take them both, AND do it around a full moon, you WILL get a kill. You don't really need a lab to test, just inspect your stool after you do this protocol, and you can see for yourself what you have.
If you don't see anything, then maybe you don't have parasites after all, and you should explore other possibilities, perhaps neurological in nature.