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Re: CANDIDA and IC....please help me convince my mom!!!!!
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Published: 19 years ago
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Re: CANDIDA and IC....please help me convince my mom!!!!!

People recover from victimhood by taking responsibility for their own health. It seems that you have done this already. Well done!

You have shown your mother how to do this, but she cannot take responsibility for her own health while someone else holds that responsibility for her.

Fortunately you are in a position to help because she has externalized her responsibility onto you. As you begin to detach emotionally you will find that she makes surprisingly rapid steps forward. She will pull all your strings in order to pull you back into the sympathizer role.

I know you love and care for your mother, but this is not the same as being concerned. Concern is actually fear not love. The emotional enegy she is draining from you is feeding her sickness.
So you should find your own health improves as well as you detach.
You can still love people and while allowing them the chance to make their own mistakes.

You seem to be healing a deep family pattern. Congratulations on your progress so far.

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