Thanks for the responces. I have had an healthy Diet for some years now ( say about 5 years) not so good before that. I have been a vegie for most of my life, at the moment my most unhealthy thing is that I drink a glass of red wine most nights.
I think the big problem is that I cannot digest my food well, it as been years since I have had a fully formed dark stool. I did try for a while a lot of the tips for digestion suggested by Shelley and also took chinese bitter, lemon and olive oil drinks and liver herbs but notice only slight improvements. I am not sure if my problem is down to Candida but I have a lot of the syptoms so I think this maybe one of the roots of the thing and i am working on that at the moment.
I am sorry to trouble you people and it is really kind of you to responed, I didn't really know where else to post this. It must sound silly me not wanting the surgery, I know a lot of my friend just don't understand it. I think some of it is a mistrust of the health proffesion, I had an emergency c-section three years ago whilst having my son and it left me with adhesion and other problems. However I do realise that the problem that I have must be nothing like having to face Cancer and of caurse I don't want it to come to that. I am just trying to do what ever is the best thing to solve this for good.