My name is Vanja K, live in Sweden. I am a mercuryvictim, too.
My website is http://www.amalgam.se
I was very touched by your story, many experience the same behavior from friends and family.
Remember, they are so ill educated and wrong, as will be proven in the future. We are kind of pioneers, all us in the different Hg communitys, dealing with the devastating implications for mankind, from dentistrys nonexisting education about toxicology..
I can get you in contact with a danish girl, about your age - recently finished with replacement - if you need someone to discuss the matter with.
I also know about a clinic in Sweden using sedation - but do not know what fillings they use for replacement.
Henrik L. has used Diamond Crown for many, many years - he is one of the best pioneers in dentistry, with a lot of knowledge - so his website is well worth reading. Available also in english.
Mail me, if you want to.
Ta hand om dig.
All the best.