When I said not if you don't accept them I was referring to your comment when you ask Do i just accept your ways/ and I am saying no you don't have to if you don't want to. No I know I will never be perfect and sure if I could change some things I would but that is water under the bridge and I have to start everyday anew!! My past is cluttered like missing pieces to a puzzle but little by little God is putting back together the pieces. Satan has fought me alot but I have kept my faith in the midst of his ownslaught! Sometimes its hard but Jesus never said it would be easier but he did say he has overcome the world.