Make sure she is taking everything possible to keep the disease dormant. If it is dormant then you will have no problems. But be careful as the symptoms can be very discrete so never touch your face after touching her down there as Yes, you can get it that way. And WASH WASH WASH your hands often just in case she doesn't and grabs your hand. Also, I suggest you two start taking Lysine, Propolis, and eat alot of FRESH garlic (the chemicals in garlic are highly potent to the virus but also breaks down within an hour of being exposed so garlic oil pills don't work!). This will help protect the both of you. Be smart, not scared & goodluck!