sounds like you are dealing with a lot there! well, remember, the Creator cares about you, and you have specail sacred purposes here.
okay, my advice is very simple - fresh organic wheatgrass juice. it is the ultimate cure all. it has cured people of cancer, cfs, endometriosis, pnumonia, and every other malady known to man. it is the most nutrient packed liquid known to man and the key ingredient to the gerson cancer protocol. grow your own, and juice immediately after cutting. it WILL change your life, guaranteed. buying the powderized form is worthless, it has minerals but non of the superhealing power of the fresh juice. if the straight juice is too harsh, mix with orange and/or lemon juice and cut with water.
of course i would advise you to do what andreas recommends as well. i am sure there are many herbs that could help.
keep seeking health, it is not hopeless, love still lives in you.