I really enjoy receiving oral sex from my wife. The problem is that if I don't ask for it I rarely get it. When we have sex I go down on her without her having to say anything, for as long as she wants it. But I don't get the same treatment in return. Having to ask for it all the time makes me feel like I'm begging, and that's not cool. After 10+ years of marriage my wife knows what gets me off. My dilema is should I just wait till she voluntarily gives me oral or continue to ask when I want oral?