You wrote: Most married guys aren't getting it but twice a month...honest.
Here's why.....beyond being tired at the end of the work day.
Maybe, it time that more guys take time to please their wives. Foreplay is most important, especially as the relationship gains in years. Since women respond a little slower than men, it involves men holding back until the right time comes.... kind of tough to do when a man feels like boiling over. Believe it or not, v1agra type products ( where qualified) prolong foreplay and will make a man bigger and harder before ejaculating.( Equals a very tight fit in the vagina and can require additional lubrication) This feels absolutely incredible to both.
In other words, if you are spending very little time having sex, you are not satisfying your wife completely.... so why would she want more of this. (A man would not want sex if he didn't cllmax...right?) Make sure she cllmaxs several times. Done right, she will be back for much more...believe it! She wins, you win.