I was giving the 25 yr old suggestions on meeting people since he was having a hard time himself. Those were just two of possibly tens of ways.
I only referred to sex w/women for the guys sake. Not me..I'm heterosexual (only if that's what you were implying).
I just want you to realize that, you may be in a good relationship but many people including myself have a difficult time finding that kind of love. The guy didn't say he was looking to get married right now, he just wanted to exp. sex.