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Re: 25 year old male virgin and feeling hopeless
Lessa Views: 15,022
Published: 18 years ago
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Re: 25 year old male virgin and feeling hopeless

"I just tend to get really nervous around females and freeze up"

I personally think this is what you need to work on. Why do you suppose this is?
We aren't that different you know. We want the same thing you do. Acceptance, welcome and hopefully love. Not necessarily marriage and babies kind of love but human expression of love. Women and Men are the same on the spiritual level, even really on the mental level. We have the same basic desires, hopes, dreams. My boyfriend says humans are all the same just stuck in different bodies with different hormones. I think when you stop thinking of "females" as a different species you will overcome this problem. When you are truly interested in someone, and spending intimate time with them, you need to do it as an equal. Giving and recieving pleasure as equals. Respecting and admiring another persons individaulity is very attractive and sexy. That is why I am still with my boyfriend after 5 years.. everyday he admires my individuality, and respects our differences. I do the same. I love men, the differences between the sexes due to hormones keep me in awe of you guys everyday.

This is just my take on it..and I apologize if it seems too abrupt.

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