obviously my gf had not seen any potential problem when she came up with this couple-spa/massage thing. I didn't really go that far, a brief oral that was abruptly stopped as she gave me that "stop-it-right-there" look. We did not complete the whole course, get dressed, left in a hurry. And she went banana the whole day. But again, she was also receiving an oral. That's how thing started to get ugly. we broke up 6 months ago, a year after the incident. No, I would not do it again.