Thanks everyone for your advice and help... I think all of your advice is helping. I'm not sure what I'm going to do... She has been my best friend since the mid 80's and we've been married for 5 years... I thought I knew her pretty well, we've talked about all this several times and each time I think it helps. She says,"She doesn't know why she destroys a relationship"... I don't think she has had sex with anyone, but like you guys have said it's in the back of my mind... At this point my sexual tension is tearing me apart along with wondering what she is doing... It's been 2 weeks since we've had sex... Granted I'm a guy and my sex drive is EXTREMELY HIGH... I feel like she might be testing me or something to see if I bring up her past. Don't get me wrong I truly love her and probably won't cheat now... However the thoughts are crossing my mind like crazy!!!
Thanks everyone for your advice and help... I think all of your advice is helping. I'm not sure what I'm going to do... She has been my best friend since the mid 80's and we've been married for 5 years... I thought I knew her pretty well, we've talked about all this several times and each time I think it helps. She says,"She doesn't know why she destroys a relationship"...