Hi I am a newlywed and we both were virgins so sex is so excitng for us.Even though a rookie at marriage I know one thing for sure couples have to have communication on a steady ongoing basis.My hubby and I communicate daily in long chats.We also know enough if a hot issue may pop up we make sure to pick the time of the chat when both of us are not tired or uptight. My hubby constantly looks to sound out my feelings and I do the same with him. Dear woman you are a team and you got to communicate as a team.If you are close to your Mom or an older female you trust share with them and get mature feedback from an elder.My Mom and older sisters help me so much and us young folk really need help from those who have experienced more of life's experieces.The other option is seek out a sex therapist for help.It is of great importance that you resolve this issue since your marriage could eventually fail due to not communicating or your hubby not amending his ways. Gee and Dear God you do not need crashed marriage.Good girl I am a rookie female newlywed like you and feel for you.If you want email me at Dennyoooo@webtv.net .Will even seek advice from my Mom and older sissies for you but keep your name and email addy private from them.Love