Right on bocor. I've been in this game for many years and it truly has been a game. Sex has been the carrot used to continue the game. However, I have tried to show that it is not necessary but only makes things worse for me since it is cutting of my nose to spite my face. Through my showing I don't need it, I hardly ever get the opportunity. The emotional abuse has been terrible but I can not do anything physical. I have told my wife if anyone else talked to me in the volume and tone she does I would mash their mouth. Since, I do not believe in being unfaithful while married, which puts me at a disadvantage, I do not have any real leverage; just take whatever comes my way. She no doubt, has lost all respect; not for anything I have done but for what I have not done. I truly think I am a pig in my wife's eyes.