About your point on "degrading women" - I went to see a gorgeous escort last month. We talked for ages, had wonderful sex and connected so well that i even forgot that i was paying her in the end. I'm kinda hooked on seeing beautiful escorts cos I connect with them so well - of course I know that she's only doing her job.
Now is that degrading women? I enjoyed it, she enjoyed it - then only thing is I paid her but am seeing her again.