Obvously you are a young man who has not reached a level of maturity that would have been attractive to me at 18 or now. Granted, both sexes should take care of themselves to look their best at any age, but nature and gravity will take its toll on all-you included. Hope your wife (if you are lucky enough to have one) will be more understanding of your little beer belly, gray nose hairs, thinning hair-or worse male pattern baldness that you won't be able to help,jowly cheeks, doouble chin, softening penis, ect, ect ect...get the picture? Not too appealing is it? Luckily things like love, committment, family, trust, joy, companionship are there to make up for our body's natural aging processes. We end up loving one another inspite of their physical attributes not because of them. It is called growing up and I hope you do some of it. Good luck!