To be honest I don't have problem satisfying my partner, I am more on oral ( I might not be the best but I'm good in that) and I usually use my stick just to complete the lap. To answer your question, mine is about 5 1/2" lg. and about 1 1/2" girt. But in this modern world and better technologies, if I can avail an extra load why settle for less?
Thanks for your advices, I'm sure I am not the only one curious about this and one good thing asking it here at CureZone is that responces here are mostly casual, factual and not commercialized.