My hubby use to beat off several times a day when we first got married. That was 15 years ago. I asked him why? He said he needed to get the relief. I asked him, wasn’t I doing that for him and he said yes but he needed more.
I told if he would stop playing with yourself, spanking the monkey and put all his energies on US that I would make sure that he got all the pleasure that he could handle.
I got him to relax and enjoy the outstanding oral sex I can give him. He has his organisms and I will work him back up and he gets another one when he is in me. He has learned to go down on me and give me pleasure and we both are a much happier couple. He still hasn’t spank the monkeyd and don’t need to.
Just relax my friend and let your wife or girlfriend do she work. and stop pulling on your cock.