Some women do REALLY enjoy sex. To say its not important to women is the same as saying all men are rapist. Both are totally absurd. Some women are not fortunate to have a partner who places as high an importance on HER cllmax as theirs. There is no good reason for two people not to take the time and the consideration to learn how to please and get their off partner. To watch the face of your partner in the troughs of ecstasy is such a total turn on. To watch their body convulse uncontrollably is a mark of trust and vulnerability. Sounds like commitment and honesty fit firmly in the equation doesn't it? It does, and these are the areas we as human beings have issues. Most of us have lived and survived a lot of garbage, I'm one who has. But it is possible to move past and find FANTASIC SEX with someone you respect and care for, dare I say it?... LOVE. My husband tells me the more turned on I get, the more turned one he gets. And he loves to watch me have an cllmax, it seems his goal in our sex is to take me to levels I've never been and I'm more than willing to go there with him. Probably because I totally trust, respect, and love him. Yes, weíre out there and we do exist.