I went reading again the message...I now agree it can be helpful since it describes a technique...but I think it didn't hit the point, which is the emotional issue. And I still don't like AT ALL G.Michael and her/his website. when I 1st time visited it I was so deceived that I found that Recommendation was not deserved. Now I see it may also offer some helpful hints. It's just my feeling about that post/poster, Ev is great and has nothing to do with this.