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Re: Always Pleasing...

It is not uncommon for women to feel the way you do. One school of thought is that women must take responsibility for their own pleasure by pleasuring themselves via self-gratification. "Buy a vibrator! It is better than no pleasure at all" they say.

Men get nervous because their penises don't vibrate and what if a woman gets addicted to the sensation. It's all so silly. A constant steady pressure, coordinated with the breath is all it takes. Most men are trying so hard they prevent a woman's pleasure. How can we focus on that tiny little nerve and reach an orgasm with a frenzy of friction and motion going on down there?!

Another school of thought is that men don't know how to pleasure women, and women don't know how to teach them. This is something that needs correcting. But we have to overcome the sexual repression that prevents us from getting to know ourselves first. It is difficult for a woman teach a man how she likes to be pleasured, if she's never experienced pleasure.

Know that you are not alone and there are many women struggling with the same issue. Some questions to ask yourself: Are you a good match physically? Are your libidos in sync? How do you feel about taking responsibility for your own pleasure?



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