I'm late 30's, almost 40 and my husband is 10 years older than I am and we *love* having sex. I love sex. If I can't have it every day with him...I'll still have it every day. I have to! Oh my goodness- I even gave him a BJ in the car the other night on the way home. We're both horny all the time. He keeps telling me I'm going to kill him *LOL* but he loves it!!! But I am way laid back about sex- like p 0 r n, love toys, love all of it. I'm sooo *not* uptight about it. And I'm not hairy- I'm very fair *hmph*[LMAO] The only thing I will say about it is....if I am angry- like "pit of my soul" angry, I will not have sex and not be interested [with him]. But I think the same hodls true for both sexes. I also think that the more uptight some women are, the more their husbands will sort of snoop around and explore other areas. I think it's human to look for that "release" not just male or female. We went to a strip club last Sat night with 2 other couples and had a blast- My husband hides nothing from me, because as natrlman put it best- it's about COMMUNICATION. We have it and it works swimmingly.....but my ex husband- ugh!! Another story!