Ok, guys look at p 0 r no b/c they want what is happening on the video to happen to them. It's a fantasy thing. Honestly, you have to satisfy him like those girls satisfy the men on the videos. If you don't then he's just gonna crave it and look elsewhere. Also, support him watching the videos as getting on his case for doing so will just aggravate him and make him want to watch even more. Guys like sex, money and freedom. Seems like two of those three are being restricted. My advice....give him oral while he's watching. He'll love you for that.