"So what's your advice, have u found out a position that will make you go longer yet makes you come?..."
Hi, only just logged back on and got your question. Um... the answer is Not Yet. Although we DID manage a simultaneous cllmax the other day only a day or two after my last post (Ta da!) I find certain positions barely stimulate at all (esp him behind) so this is a good way to give him something while I wait. Talk to your girlfriend about which positions really turn her on and which don't, and take note of the ones that don't quite as much, and if possible incorporate these ones into the early part of your lovemaking. She sounds like she has a high libido so will still remain turned on and ready even while you are in a position that isn't QUITE doing it for her. I also find if I'm on top, I'll come or want to almost immediately. It is a combination of being in control of the rhythm of it all, and also the extreme clitoral stimulation. For me, becoming desensitized is the biggest thing that kills off the abilty to cllmax.. at the risk of being controversal..(and this advice does NOT apply to all those men out there whose girlfriends take a long time to warm up) AVOID clitoral stimulation, even with your body until later, until you are ready to come yourself. If she is fairly 'untouched' in this area thusfar, she will come quickly and easily whenever you DO begin to stimulate her there. If you are on top, be a little upright so as not to rub too much there. My bf does this and it drives me crazy bc all I want is him to stay closer if he is on top, but it works, and delays my cllmax a little longer. He has no idea he's driving me so mad, I'm sure. Ha!
Hope all this helps.