thanks agian for your personal advice.
my husband is going for his first colonic tomorrow. it will be one in a series of three days in a row. from what i have read so far from everyone here, that will do the trick. he is not totally happy about it. (he is somewhat of a shy guy) but he is so at his witts end with all of this. and he is also doing a bowel flush because i know that is a major part of the problem. (P&B shakes) other than that, i am pretty much still trying to piece everything together.