I looked all over for unloving posts to Anonymous and couldn't find any. But I did find one from you to an unnamed group of people. You said, "Shame on everyone who didn't show you love and understanding. They think they have all the answers". Is that a 'loving' statement?
Who said they have all the answers? The only people who have all the answers are those who haven't heard all the questions! But God has all the answers, and he put the ones we need to know in the Bible.
I think it's only fair for you to personally contact the offenders and try to resolve the issue. It would also help to see your love and understanding in action when you do so. Please also be sure to define 'unloving' and provide the scripture references.