I’d just like to know when you have to worry about abuse in the relationship. Its just that my partner can be quite jealous and doesn’t have a lot of trust for me, we have quarreled over this many times and I have hit him for calling me a bitch, he can just make me very angry. I didn’t attack him my arm just instinctively swung for his face, but I think he can be mentally abusive in a sense that hell try to make me feel guilty and not let me talk to other men without getting jealous and calling me things. He normally is very kind to me and lets me make the decisions and I will be his main focus etc. but I would like to know if this can get out of hand, so I can get help for us both.