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just_peachy Views: 1,370
Published: 19 years ago
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You hit him, no matter how you try to justify it. He is possesive, jealous, and controlling. Not good.

Leave. Leave now while it's still at this low stage. Don't worry about another relationship for awhile. Work on *yourself*. What buttons do you have that he pushed when you hit him? Those are areas you need to look into.

Everything you need is within yourself. Find it, learn to appreciate yourself for who you are and you won't be drawn to possessive, jealous people. Lots of people tend to think of jealousy as a sign of caring - it is NOT. It is a sign of insecurity and control. Those who look for jealous types tend to need the constant proof that they're special or 'loved'.

You don't need anyone else to make you feel good about yourself, to make you special, or to make you feel loved. It is all inside of you. Once you find it, then you can be a full partner is a *healthy*, not needy relationship.


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