But I want to help him because he’s explained it all to me and had the honesty to talk about it with me. He’s also told me he hates himself for it and he really wants to stop because he knows its hurting me. Sorry about the change of thought, it just occurred that it is of much importance when a jealous partner tells you exactly how they feel. I want to help him first but I don’t know if he will change.but then again peolpe always say them things. oh i dunno im confused