Thanks husky, its like reading a post from my bf. I don’t want to leave him rite away at all, I don’t even want to leave him. Because he’s just so like me and I have such a good time with him ........okay more so to the point.
He’s told me all this. And your rite splitting up with him rite away would hurt us both, and then id no I hurt him and feel even more hurt. But if he doesn’t change I got to go, but in saying that he has made allot big changes b4 like giving up drugs (which could be the route to his paranoia). Its all the horrible stories I’m told about people and their relationships and I wish he could keep promises about not doing things like that. Apart from all the jealousy, he is perfect for me; I think he’s the kindest most considerate person I’ve met. And he doesn’t want to control me, which is really good. So I will give him a chance to change, but if he doesn’t it only progresses from there and I have to leave before things start getting really yuky.