hmmm...i'm seeing both sides of the coin here. thinker is not meaning to be cruel, just slightly cool cause he's analitical, unlike people who come directly from the heart.
an extreme of either is not healthy. thinker has some good advice about not indulging in this, this is true! but again, the coin has 2 sides and how will we not know what our problem is if we don't have the guts to go in deep and indulge? some of us have to hit bottom, thinker! not everything can be solved in the mind and with the mind, but a good perspecive on things is necessary.
yet, when we get too emotional we lose that perspecive and sometimes it's necessary for someone to come along and give us a good kick in the pants! thinker has good advice, and had enlightened me in some moments here, so don't completely dismiss it for HATE.