HI! I am sorry it's not working out for you. It's always a hard thing to break up relationship after many years of being together. For some people here it seems like yours even wasn't a relationship. But... For some people the only relationships they can be in are the long distance ones. Now the only question is is it love, or just a habit. There are people who really love each other, but cannot stand each other in everyday life. I know a lot of long-distance relationships which are working out for years. And the base for good relationship in my opinion is not preventing anybodys dreams, carriers to happen, because we need to live together. Because one day you may say, because of her/him I ruined my life. You are still very young, and may find sombody else, or not. Remember priorities though: 1. Love (do not confuse romance with love), 2.Friendship 3. Respect, 4. Wisdom the last ones on your list should be sex, romance and looks.