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Re: You are right! Jealousy=insecurity=something lacking
 
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Re: You are right! Jealousy=insecurity=something lacking


well, i have recently ended the relationship i was in when i wrote you a relpy. and guess what? i feel amazing! my confidence has increased, my anxiety is almost gone and my energy is up. not to mention i get whistled at every day! i am also beginnig to see clearly how insecure that guy was and what it did to me!
a guy like that needs constant attention and the woman needs to constatnly look out for sublte attacks of negativity, so she doesn't end up blaming herself for!

i figure some guys will keep a woman in 'her place' jealous and insecure because the man is so insecure and threatened by her he has to create some air of mistery and power! then there is also projection of negative feelings he does not want to own so we end up carrying. i'm not sure if that is your situation or not.

anyway,

i'm not saying all men do this, or that women don't get jealous, but rather this is is a way of control, subtle, passive aggressive, sometimes even not aware of, controll!

life is good. who needs people who drain you and make you end up doubting yourself? seek someone positive that reflects the best in you.! sounds like this guy needs to learn a few things about himself and get over his issues before he can be a partner to another.

best!
 

 
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