You know, I hear this from women a lot..."I don't have this hot attraction for him, but he's a good guy". Added to that he creates turmoil in the family because he's not Greek. That's two strikes against little Missy! In a nutshell: If your guy doesn't "do it for you" then you haven't found the right guy, Catholic or not, Greek or not. Such is life. I wouldn't marry somebody with no sizzle, why should you settle? Women do it every day of the week, marrying milktoast lovers that offer only this "inward beauty", but very little fire. So be it, if that's your lot in life. Be the renegade and marry outside...don't say I didn't warn you...