I think what is shallow is that you are discussing "prospects" rather than going with the flow of life. Like the other poster said, people come along when you are not looking for them, ALLOW some one to appear and before you rate them out of ten, drop all that and just be a person, talking to another person. ANY woman fat or thin is going to pick up on your current mindset before you make first base. If they are of a similar mindset chances are the relationship won't last. If they are of a different mindset chances are the relationship won't last.
Fat women and thin women have one thing in common, intuition!