I think it's a little bit crappy to not want to date someone over 200 pounds. You might miss out on someone really special, but on the other hand you need to be attracted to someone you're dating. Being female I know that 200 pounds doesn't look good on some of us... I guess you're not being too picky because to some of the jackasses I've dated my 120 pounds is a lot compared to their ex girlfriends and they wouldn't go much higher than that. It's hard to find someone these days (especially in america) who isn't a little chubby, so I guess everyone will have to deal how it is.