How many hints do you need? This bum doesn't want to get married, plain and simple. Why don't you act accordingly and hightail it out of Jamaica and back to the states where a decent, mature guy is waiting? This is a immature loser you've been shack'in up with all these years. AND YOU WANT TO MAKE BABIES WITH THIS???? You've wasted two years with this bumpkin, cut your losses! You come from a loving, caring, committed family yet you set aside your morality like it was nothing. Are you that desperate?!! Stand up for yourself and make life work in your favor...instead of allowing fellows with zero committment to a marriage make decisions for you. You keep doing him for free, he'll keep yank'in yer chain...and one day he'll dump you and the illigitimate kids. Then where will you be?