welcome to marriage my friend.

Intimacy always declines with each passing year of marriage...that's what it is. Nobody gets laid like when you were dating...NOBODY. Marriage tends to morph lovers into friends or "partners". If someone told you otherwise they were lieing. My cllmaxes now aren't even close to cllmaxes in the back of my van at a drive-in movie. Such is life. That's marriage. The girl you're doing is great now, but eventually she'll wear off, like they all do. Sexual intimacy fades in marriage. I haven't brought this up in ages, but I have a "2% LOSS OF LUST RULE" that is absolutely dead-on correct. For each year of marriage both partners lose 2% of the lust for one another. Now they develop other traits such as trust, bonding, respect, blah, blah, blah...but the sex goes. So, if you've been together for 15 years a guy will have 30% fewer lustful thoughts about his wife than before. 30% less!! Married for 40 years...hardly any sex thoughts going on at all. All guys reading this know exactly when I'm saying, but few have ever read it. I know, I know. BushCheney2007 can really come up with some doozies. My advice: Get a hobby. Having affairs will lead to marital and financial disaster. Wife doesn't deserve that...just for being frigid? Tweet