Dont' take this the wrong way, but, fatties ALWAYS repeat tired cliches like this. "Love the person, not the body." Fat people say that, not good-looking ones. Of course they're gonna say that, what else have they to offer but personality? If a guy can't get past the fat, the personality had better be off-the-charts stupendous...which most aren't. Who would want to marry Starr JOnes???? You couldn't pay me to bed down with that slob, but somebody did. I've dated a few knock-outs along the way who eventually grew some fat thighs, and out the door they're booted. Bye Bye. Gotta go. That's the price you pay for not keeping up with your Tae Bo routines. If I keep up with my BowFlex routines I expect nothing less from my dates. I don't think that's asking too much in this day of 1 out of 3 American women being obese and 1 out of 2 being overweight. Is it? Is that really asking too much?