You've given him plenty of reasons NOT TO MARRY YOU! Demanding, selfish, harsh, money-motivated, loaded with baggage...and you're the one complaining?? None of the listed are dealbreakers?? Sounds like a cold-hearted prick wedding a cold-hearted golddigger to me. Hey, at least you're honest! That's one mark in your favor. Is it wrong to marry for money? Women do it all the time. You pay the price, though. All the things you list...well, count on them as the wages of financial security. You want to play, you gotta pay. What a miserable way to start out a marriage.