Re: Lost (Again)
How about you both get skype and talk (it's free internet phone which just requires a mic and headphones). That will give you more information and feedback about the relationship. The energetics you can pick up from voice is immense.
Its good to see how someone is in the moment bu just being or playing with them in the moment. Dreaming is much different. Most people dream of great things but the vast majority tends to die with their music still in them. The consensus reality breeds mediocrity. Its great to find a partner wherby you inspire each other as opposed to enable each other's incoherency (where most of the planet seems to reside) oftemn refered to as codependency.
Another clue. Did you attract this person in a clear and empowered state or a weak, needy state? What state we are in and our projected thoughts will bring coresponding relationships back to us in divine resonance. Like attracts like.
Where "were" you (state)when you atracted each other?
Also practice being in the nowe as much as possible and when thoughts of doubt come in, observe them (try without following thus creating energy in motion..emotion) and they will reveal thier source in thought form. Be patient in this. ;-)