Like I said in an earlier post, our servicemen and women have a choice, enlist or don't enlist. They know that there is a possibility of being killed. They are not defenseless. The unborn are defenseless, voiceless, and millions are killed each year.
And yes, I was in the "pregnancy" situation and I know exactly what I am talking about.
And no, it isn't "pass the potatoes when anyone dies" but there is a marked difference. One that should be obvious.