I used the term Aborted/killed/murdered because that's what you refer to it as. ... semantics won't win you this debate though.
MURDER: The unlawful killing of one human by another.
Abortion is not murder by my definition or by current law's definition. By your definition it should, and will be murder soon.
Although you could never compensate a woman, financials are just one thing you would be responsible for if you remove a woman's choice and decide for her. You think your taxes and church tithes justify your invasion of a woman? I'm talking being there to raise the baby and compensate the woman for raping her (which is impossible by the way), not write out a check to your church or IRS. Multiply that by a few million women that your voting and influence will affect. Impossible. Again, you don't want to get your hands dirty and couldn't even if you wanted to. No amount of money could compensate a woman for violating her. Rights are not bought and sold, they belong to everyone regardless of sex or financial situation.
Your adoption point might be interesting if there weren't orphans and homeless kids everywhere. Keep trying.