This time it was not your typing but my husbands ears lol and my spelling is very baddddd.
You hit the nail on the head,my friend has eaten herself to the chair. I try to reason with her that if only she would lose enough weight she could walk again. She tells me she would still be in pain and she knows lots of skinny people who are in pain and can't walk.
She knows what she must do, but would rather continue not drinking enough water and eat what ever has a good taste.
She is disabled and not working any longer ,but before she went out she got this nearly new van with a lift and that fancy wheel chair all free. So yes she is able to do some shopping by her self. She is very determined and has managed to live alone,but the time is soon comeing when she will not be able to lift her self from the cahir to the toilet or her bed.
I will ever be at her side serving her any way I can,for she is to me the mother I never had and my best friend.